I can't find a good church
BY Anton Bosch
BEYOND doubt, the most frequent question I receive is: “Where can I find a good church?”. There is no doubt that good churches are hard to find and that they are steadily declining in size and number. But, in trying to assist folk in this area, I have become aware that many people are asking the wrong questions.
To most people the first question revolves around worship. Many people tell me they had closed their minds to a church even before the first line had been sung. Either the music is too contemporary, too traditional, too professional or not professional enough. Our church, in Burbank, has a lot going for it (good teaching, warm fellowship, a desire to live the Gospel) but visitors seldom return and one of the main reasons is because we have not been blessed with musicians. That should be the last reason for making a decision against attending “church”, yet it is often the first. Even if the worship is not to your liking, as long as it is not carnal, you need to stick around, listen to the ministry and meet the people before passing judgment. Remember that the purpose of worship is to bless God. It is not for our enjoyment, so the question we should be asking is not whether we enjoyed the worship, but whether God was honoured by the worship.
One of the most important considerations for many is the size of the church. Invariably the decision is based on the mistaken idea that bigger is better and that a crowd draws a crowd. The truth is that the bigger the congregation, the less likely that it will be a good church. Small does not guarantee anything, but the true churches will never be big. What is the smallest church you should consider? Don’t consider anything smaller than two or three! (Matthew 18:20). These churches will be harder to find because they don’t have advertising budgets and expensive properties, but they are worth finding.
The next in order of priorities for many are things such as a children’s ministry, coffee, a nice building, comfortable seats and convenient parking. The importance of these things can be gauged by the prominence they take in the church’s advertising. The billboard of a church down the street from us promotes “Jehovah Java”. Beats me why anyone would want to go to church for coffee when they can simply go to the local coffee shop, except if they are too miserly to pay the going rate!
Many will reject a church because it does not have a children’s ministry. Where does the Bible give the church the responsibility to train, entertain and educate the children? I thought that was the duty of the parents. Most people want a church with a nice building but did you know that the church that meets in a hired hall or a storefront is more likely to be zealous for God and His Word than the established congregation with the big mortgage who think that the church is the building? Nowhere in the New Testament were things such as children’s entertainment, accommodation, catering and personal comfort even thought of. They are symptomatic of our sick and perverted sense of values.
One of the decisive factors for many in choosing a church is that of demographics. Is the congregation made up of people my age, educational level, social standing, financial worth, professional status and most important, race? Of course no-one would admit to it, but it is the truth. Very few people are willing to cross these social and ethic barriers in their search for a church. And what a blessing that they don’t because they would only contaminate a good church with their bigotry. It is best that people with that kind of intolerance die a lonely spiritual death than bring their sinful pride and prejudice into any church! Our common bond is Christ and nothing else. The only legitimate hindrance to fellowship in this regard is language—nothing else matters. The fact is that those that you look down on are more likely to be more spiritual than those you would like to associate with.
Somewhere at the bottom of the priorities is the question of whether people enjoyed the message. But this too is the wrong question. It is very likely that if you enjoyed the message that you were in the wrong place. There are even churches that preach a doctrinally correct message but its effect on people is to puff them up with knowledge and pride. Many flock to such churches because everything looks and sounds good, and they feel comfortable because there is no personal challenge to change their lifestyle. One of the other reasons why visitors do not like to return to our church is because the message is challenging. If the preacher does not leave you with something to think about (personally), he has not done his job. Yes, we also encourage, comfort and exhort but the Word is about doing more than about knowing or feeling.
The final question on most people’s mind is whether the teaching is doctrinally correct. Yet this should be one of the highest priorities. It does not matter how much you like the church and how everything else seems to be a match, if the teaching is not truth or if it is void of sound doctrine then that is not a good church.
Somewhere near the top of most people’s list is the question of denomination. Many will reject a church, sometimes without even attending a single meeting, just based on the denominational affiliation. Personally, I don’t like denominations but if you are really hungry, you do not mind what kind of label is stuck to the wrapping in which the loaf of bread comes. These days the denominational brand tells very little about the local congregation. You will find all extremes and balances in almost every denomination today. The only exceptions are cults where the activities of the branches are strictly controlled by the head honchos. So don’t reject the church on the corner until you actually investigate it closely.
It seems to me that many people conclude that there is not a good church in their area by picking up the telephone directory or looking on the internet or driving past the buildings. Unfortunately there is no shortcut to the process of finding a church. You will have to physically pound the pavement and visit them one-by-one. Yes, some can be rejected because their errors are blatantly advertised (such as the Jehovah-Java church or the church where the distinguished feature is bingo on Wednesday night).
Before you begin your search, you need to make sure you have the right attitude. I will hope to address that later. In the mean time you may want to take a piece of paper and list the things the Lord really wants you to have in a church—not what you want but what He wants.
About the Author
ANTON BOSCH claims a fourth generation Christian ministry heritage. His great-grandfather was kicked out of the Salvation Army because he believed and practised divine healing. He later started the Mahon Mission and All Nations Gospel Publishers which publishes tracts in 414 languages. Anton met the Lord Jesus Christ as his Saviour in 1968 and married his present wife, Ina in 1975. They have two married daughters and two grand-children in South Africa. Anton holds BTh (hons) and MTh degrees. From 1973 to 1997 he served with the Assemblies of God in South Africa. In 1997 he left the denomination, established Plumb-line Ministries and since then ministers regularly in churches throughout Africa and the United States. His tape and written ministry reaches to all parts of the world. At the end of 2003 he became senior pastor of Burbank Community Church (Los Angeles, California) and since 2004 has served as president of the International Fellowship of Christian Believers (IFCB), which supervises a group of autonomous churches and ministries with international links. These churches form a loose association which recognises the autonomy of each local fellowship with common goals and values. They hold each other accountable to the Word of God. Anton’s life-long quest is to call Christians and churches back to knowing, believing and living the Bible. He has planted a number of churches that are based on these principles. He is passionate about a correct exegesis of the Word and specialises in expository preaching and teaching. www.antonbosch.org — www.burbankchurch.org